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“The Flying Penis.”

Erotic Award winner 2011 for innovation of the year.

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”By taking advantage of assisted masturbation, I am able to
explore my sexuality and become aware of my body and what I like.
I also avoid involving my personal caretaker.”

Mathilde 28

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”The beautiful, erotic experiences we have gained
via Assisted sex, is so much more satisfying,
than our experience using prostitutes.”

Jane and Thomas

Equality for All

”Persons with disabilities must not be denied the opportunity to experience their sexuality [and] have sexual relationships….”
Standard rule no. 9 in the UN convention on equalization of opportunities for persons with disabilities

It’s human rights, pure and simple.
However, the reality is not quite that simple. Sticking a laxative up someone’s rear end, changing diapers and washing the genitals of people who are unable to do this for themselves, is acceptable. Nevertheless, when the same person has a sexual need, all hell breaks loose. At best it is ignored, at worst it becomes highly complicated and frowned upon -mostly due to lack of knowledge and courage to do something about it. It is high time we settle with foolish prejudices and ridiculous taboos.

Elderly, diseased, and disabled persons are equally entitled to erotic desires, feelings and needs, and it is our responsibility to facilitate these natural feelings in a decent and dignified way.

Handisex offers solutions to these problems, demanding equality for all in the name of love.

We have solid professional expertise and extensive practical experience

Handisex deals with all aspects of the sexuality of people with disabilities, their families, support staff, and professionals. We specialize in preparing professionals to govern the sexuality of their clients, patients or citizens within the boundaries of their field. We have vast experience in assisting people with disabilities to manage and express their sexuality in a natural and expedient manner. We welcome all types of sexuality within the law, while maintaining healthy and respectful professional borders between staff and their clients, patients or citizens.

For people with disabilities:

  • Assessment of sexual needs
  • Sexual guidance
  • Sexual training
  • Sexual education
  • Intercourse and masturbation assistance
  • Sensual massage

For professionals:

  • Disability and sexuality
  • Working with sexuality
  • Law, rights, and duties
  • Identifying clients’ needs
  • Boundary setting and abuse
  • Practical sexual assistance
  • Sexual policies

For elderly & victims of disease

  • A sex life with acquired brain injury
  • A sex life with disease
  • A sex life regardless of age
  • Overcoming psychiatric challenges
  • Overcoming physical Challenges
  • Couple counseling
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For people with disabilities:

Assisted sex

Handisex assists you and your partner to enjoy sex – to your specific preferences if possible.
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Sensual massage

Guidance and counseling are vital, but that alone does not increase your awareness of your body.
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Sexual guidance

Sexual guidance is an individual counseling for people whom are confused or simply curious about their body, sex and their sexuality.
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Assisted masturbation

If you are unable to use your hands, the option of using sex toys to masturbate is present.
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Sexual guidance

Sexual guidance is an individual counseling for people whom are confused or simply curious ...
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Sexual education

In contrast to sexual guidance, sexual education, are group meetings, where we can talk about anything ...
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For elderly & victims of disease:

A sexlife after acquired brain injury

A brain injury can affect your sexuality in a variety of areas – sensory, motoric, cognitive and emotional.
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A sex life with age

Everyone needs physical contact, warmth and intimacy. Skin to skin.
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Overcoming physical challenges

Certain sexual challenges are primarily physical. If you for instance suffer from paralysis ...
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A sex life after disease

If you suffer from a stroke, heart attack, or cancer, you or your partner may have already ...
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A sex life after disease

If you suffer from a stroke, heart attack, or cancer, you or your partner may have already ...
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Couple counseling

Spouses are easily overlooked when their partner becomes ill and thus loses some of his or her functionality.
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For professionals:

Sexuality and disability

If you work with people – either in the educational or in the health care realm – it is very likely...
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Legislation, obligations and responsibilities

Most often there is no specific law entitled “Disability and Sexuality”. Instead, when it comes to assist ...
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Boundaries and abuse

One individual is requesting help with masturbation. Another is expecting you to call ...
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Talking about sex

”… And you know what the worst thing is? Every time I try to initiate a conversation about my sexual frustration ...
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Assistance with assessment

Basically, assessment means finding out what the client or patient needs.
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Sexual policy

A sexual policy is a common set of values and guidelines that you and your colleagues can use in your work with ...
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